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09 December 2018 11:27
 
GAD - 09 December 2018 11:07 AM
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Jefe - 09 December 2018 09:35 AM

Confidence.  Kindness. A good sense of humour.  All help.
Being built like Jason Momoa also helps, I gather from my wife.

That’s just based on bullshit that women tell themselves so they don’t feel guilty about wanting to get pounded by a man. We are all trying to get to pound town, guys just want to get to pound town and start pounding, but women they want you to be nice, open the door, give them flowers, look into eyes, listen to their whining and tell them what you offer them, and then when they’ve convinced themselves they’ve done their due diligence and it’s OK for you to take them to pound town and make them scream in ecstasy, then you can get to the pounding.

Never change, GAD.  You are a rock in the stormy seas of reality.

I’ve watched to many “romantic” movies trying to be the nice guy the woman wants to let drive her to pound town and I figured some shit out a long the way.

Here’s a good one; get a “romantic” movie that your wife is really into, and after the guy has hopped through all the hoops and the woman is ready to go to pound town, turn it off and say we know what happens no need to watch it and watch the hilarity of not getting the big payoff after two and half hours of boring courtship games.

I think a key difference is that men tend to be less choosyy about who they’d go to pound-town with, than women are.

 
 
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09 December 2018 11:39
 
Jefe - 09 December 2018 11:27 AM
GAD - 09 December 2018 11:07 AM
Jefe - 09 December 2018 10:52 AM
GAD - 09 December 2018 10:46 AM
Jefe - 09 December 2018 09:35 AM

Confidence.  Kindness. A good sense of humour.  All help.
Being built like Jason Momoa also helps, I gather from my wife.

That’s just based on bullshit that women tell themselves so they don’t feel guilty about wanting to get pounded by a man. We are all trying to get to pound town, guys just want to get to pound town and start pounding, but women they want you to be nice, open the door, give them flowers, look into eyes, listen to their whining and tell them what you offer them, and then when they’ve convinced themselves they’ve done their due diligence and it’s OK for you to take them to pound town and make them scream in ecstasy, then you can get to the pounding.

Never change, GAD.  You are a rock in the stormy seas of reality.

I’ve watched to many “romantic” movies trying to be the nice guy the woman wants to let drive her to pound town and I figured some shit out a long the way.

Here’s a good one; get a “romantic” movie that your wife is really into, and after the guy has hopped through all the hoops and the woman is ready to go to pound town, turn it off and say we know what happens no need to watch it and watch the hilarity of not getting the big payoff after two and half hours of boring courtship games.

I think a key difference is that men tend to be less choosyy about who they’d go to pound-town with, than women are.

Nah, you’ve been programmed to believed that.

 
 
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09 December 2018 16:42
 

GAD, pound town is ambiguous. Some like it hot, some like it soft.

 
 
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Jb8989 - 09 December 2018 04:42 PM

GAD, pound town is ambiguous. Some like it hot, some like it soft.

Pound town has something for everyone, that’s why it’s so fucking popular!

 
 
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09 December 2018 23:22
 
GAD - 09 December 2018 10:46 AM
Jefe - 09 December 2018 09:35 AM

Confidence.  Kindness. A good sense of humour.  All help.
Being built like Jason Momoa also helps, I gather from my wife.

That’s just based on bullshit that women tell themselves so they don’t feel guilty about wanting to get pounded by a man. We are all trying to get to pound town, guys just want to get to pound town and start pounding, but women they want you to be nice, open the door, give them flowers, look into eyes, listen to their whining and tell them what you offer them, and then when they’ve convinced themselves they’ve done their due diligence and it’s OK for you to take them to pound town and make them scream in ecstasy, then you can get to the pounding.

Now I really wish I was gay.

 
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10 December 2018 19:11
 
GAD - 09 December 2018 04:55 PM
Jb8989 - 09 December 2018 04:42 PM

GAD, pound town is ambiguous. Some like it hot, some like it soft.

Pound town has something for everyone, that’s why it’s so fucking popular!

That true. It’s not as popular as it used to be, though. Nowadays there’s too many strings attached. Everyone’s either lovelorn or trying to lock down death do us part.

 
 
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10 December 2018 21:45
 
Jb8989 - 10 December 2018 07:11 PM
GAD - 09 December 2018 04:55 PM
Jb8989 - 09 December 2018 04:42 PM

GAD, pound town is ambiguous. Some like it hot, some like it soft.

Pound town has something for everyone, that’s why it’s so fucking popular!

That true. It’s not as popular as it used to be, though. Nowadays there’s too many strings attached. Everyone’s either lovelorn or trying to lock down death do us part.

True that! Men are the new women.

I couldn’t take it any longer Lord I was crazed
And when the feeling came upon me like a tidal wave
I started swearing to my god and on my mother’s grave
That I would love you to the end of time
I swore, that I would love you to the end of time
So now I’m praying for the end of time
To hurry up and arrive
‘Cause if I gotta spend another minute with you
I don’t think that I can really survive
I’ll never break my promise or forget my vow
But god only knows what I can do right now
I’m praying for the end of time
It’s all that I can do (oh oh oh)
Praying for the end of time, so I can end my life with you

 

 
 
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11 December 2018 00:05
 

Humans are natural Game Theorists: the moment a pattern of desiderable traits in a mate is established, it becomes advantageous to defect from said patterns: novelty is a value in itself, since it forces others to react to it, rather than vice versa.

 
 
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Brick Bungalow - 06 December 2018 10:30 AM

There is a danger in these questions to smuggle flattery. Saying that ‘I’m attracted to honesty’ for instance might be true but I suspect that these lists are sometimes more about reinforcing ones self image than they are about creating an accurate report.

Also, I’m skeptical of the impulse to conflate sexual attraction with platonic attraction. I know that I’m personally stimulated by all sorts of things that are not necessarily normative and the statistical data suggests that I’m not alone. I’ve been drawn into the orbit of people who were quite toxic and I’m pretty sure some of my partners probably feel the same.
All that said, Redheads.

First off, what percentage of men and women could actually make an unambiguous list of wha ‘turned them on’? There are a number of mistakes in asking such questions. To start with some individuals are ‘turned on’ without a specific identifiable trigger. Instance suddenly feeling horney without any identifiable cause. It’s not only rapists who take to the street in search of any sexual outlet. On the other hand if we bring that messy area of ‘love’ into the equation logic really can disappear out the window. Pherenomes aside many of us can fall for someone without really knowing why. As a gay man I’ve often been surprised at myself in who’s caught my eye. I do however have a list of things I know always turn me off. Anyone announcing in advance the roles we’ll take in bed as a fait accompli impresses me as too boring to be bothered with. The biggest turn off for me is anyone who smokes nicotine. Rather kiss an ashtray.

Someone mentioned redheads. I’ve never been able to resist any man with a large red beard and I have absolutely no idea why, Interestingly I’ve never jumped into the cot with a red - bearded male who wasn’t, (how do I put this?) to use a wonderful Australian expression ‘a great root’ or in more vulgar local parlance “Banged like a dunny door”.

If the astonishing range of attractions and fetishes our species are prone to is listed we begin to plumb the depths of the weirdness of the human mind. A friend who’s managed high-end escort agencies has over the years related some of these bewildering preferences. Often she tells me it’s not the attributes of the escort lady/man who’s important to clients so much as the particluar ‘aids’ used in the sex act. She once had a Supreme Court Judge pay huge amounts to be slapped with raw tripe whilst he wore nappies. The conclusion of this game I’ll avoid relating - I don’t even like thinking about it.
The most puzzling feature of human sexuality I can never get my head around is the role of guilt. Many with deep religious convictions and prohibitions aren’t turned on until and unless they feel they’re being naughty/sinful. We are a weird species.

 
 
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Skipshot - 09 December 2018 11:22 PM
GAD - 09 December 2018 10:46 AM

That’s just based on bullshit that women tell themselves so they don’t feel guilty about wanting to get pounded by a man. We are all trying to get to pound town, guys just want to get to pound town and start pounding, but women they want you to be nice, open the door, give them flowers, look into eyes, listen to their whining and tell them what you offer them, and then when they’ve convinced themselves they’ve done their due diligence and it’s OK for you to take them to pound town and make them scream in ecstasy, then you can get to the pounding.

Now I really wish I was gay.

Some truth and some sexist garbage there BUT—In my misguided youth I found seducing women to be a tedious and complex business and often expensive too. However, we have to take into acount millions of years of survival strategy necessary for women to thrive or survive in the age before contraception. On the other hand male/male sexuality I found far less complicated and in most cases involving far fewer emotional games and traps. Walk up to another man in a gay bar for instance and ask ‘Wanna root buddy” and it’s either yes or no and seldom with any complications. However, now that gay marriage is sometimes a possibility the game for some is played more carefully.

 
 
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